I was just now in my worst party ever.
As our WHM said when I announced that I was leaving: "It was chaos from fight #1." The party set-up was fine: NIN/WAR, NIN/WAR, WAR/THF, DRG/WAR, WHM/BLM, RDM/BLM (me). The first sign that this was going to be bad was that one of our NINs didn't have any macros--not even a provoke macro.
In the first fight, our WAR/THF pulled hate off of both NINs by slapping on sneak attack, berserk, and warcry. The WHM and I had to frantically throw out cures to keep him alive. The NINs never were able to get hate back.
On the second pull, our puller managed to link three mobs. One link is understandable, but how the hell do you get three links? After that, our first voke got really lazy. One fight our WHM almost died before he got the voke off. That time the second NIN (the one who hadn't had any macros) just provoked in his stead.
I was willing to forgive up until this point, but the next fight was the end of it.
Again, the first voke took forever to get provoke off. It came after me this time (I was resting) and knocked me down under 100 HP. Instead of provoking, the NIN uses mijin-freakin'-gakure. The crawler turns and takes out the WHM and the rest of us died shortly after. I didn't even have the chance to throw any cures out before we got raped.
I HP'd back to Jeuno after that, and the NIN (who happened to be the leader) kept begging me to come back. She said "we were doing fine." I just want to know what her definition of bad was. That party was a trainwreck.
So, I'm assuming people have better stories than that. I want to hear about the worst party you've ever been in. I won't feel so alone that way--maybe I'll even feel a little better once I hear some really bad stuff.