I know its a strange concept finding a woman who wants to marry a gamer but it can be done. I am engaged to Kittenfrom this forum and have been for over 6 months over a year ago now when we first met I was brutally honest and admitted that even though I had been suicidal under a year before one of the few things that kept me going (with a little help from Xander too) was a computer game I play online it's a beta test and I still play. I also was brutally honest about the fact that my ex had tried to change me from being a gamer. It doesnt mean the woman you meet has to be a gamer she just has to be able to accept that you are and it probably in all honesty going to change.
At the end of the day we are who we are and if we are gamers then women have to accept that fact but I believe there has to be certain compromises from us towards them too. (or just make them start playing the games you play to spend more time on both the games and with herlol)