sounds like everyone has their own way about things. i used to feel like such a loser cause i was the only guy of my friends single. i didn't know it then that i hadn't found the right one, but when i did i wasn't shy or not myself i just was me. after we started dating i found out she moved from california to tennessee for no aparent reason she had a freind who was moveing and she felt she should go with her then they missed there exit to the town they were movingto and decided to go to the next town. i just got back from the army and got a job were she got one a couple of weeks later. now we know that it was all meant to be. to many things happened at the same time and we just new when we met that it was right we have been together almost 2 years and it has been awesome.