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    Owkay, when someone acts like that (and not only girls act like that ) It's better to ask whats wrong, what is on her mind.... Because something was bothering her....
    One big tip when there is something wrong: ACTIVE LISTENING, this really helps. It means that you ask what's wrong and let her explain, let her talk, you just listen, nod, sometimes say someting. So she has controll over the conversation
    For example: I'm taking your situation

    Me: what do you want to eat
    Her: I dont know
    Me: What you mean you dont know, are you hungry?
    Her Yeah
    Me: Well what you got a taste for
    Her: I dont know

    this is good, you ask and listen

    Me: What's wrong, do you want to talk about it?
    Her: No (She will probably say no)
    Me: If you don't want to talk about it, that's fine. But if there is somthing wrong and I can help........
    now she might begin to talk

    The thing is, this is not entirely your fault, don't blame it on you. She is the one with a problem, she doesn't want to talk about it, she makes you feel uncomfortable. The only thing you coul've done is ask and listen


    That's just my opinion, not THE right answer. (I studied something like that on school, we had to write a paper about a conversation that went wrong and explain why it went wrong and stuff like that....)
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    You called your girlfriend stupid and told her to get out of your house. Over chicken.


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    I think you were mean to her.

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    Yeah, I think you were kinda mean to her (no offense really)... you could've been more understanding and try to know what was kind of bothering her, or you could've told her like, "Baby, what's wrong? Are you okay or something? If there's something wrong or something is bothering you, you can tell me and maybe I'll help out?" .. or something like that... Sometimes, girls are like that like in your conversation(I've experience that before), and my guy friends always asks me what's wrong and they're very understanding...

    Well, I'm not making sense, but I do agree with the others, she was acting a little spoiled or something, but nonetheless, the conflict could've been prevented if acted in the right precautions..

    I'm not making sense again..

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    Im a guy I dont understand or ask questions about how you feel emotionally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ballistix Man
    Quote Originally Posted by Levian
    You don't mess with a black man when he's having chicken and kool aid. The bitch had to go.
    Its true. Im sorry but you just dont mess with a black man when hes having chicken and kool aid.
    This is what it comes down to people, it's so easy to understand. You don't mess with a black man when he's having chicken and kool aid. End of story.

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    Arguing over chicken. Heh, perhaps I should be glad I'm not in a relationship...

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    It wasnt about chicken its about general indescisiveness.

    And chicken.

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    True that. I was just using chicken as the example. Thank God some women aren't so picky.

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    Im a guy I dont understand or ask questions about how you feel emotionally.
    Maybie you should.

    And I fail to see what the fuss was about. So she couldnt decide what she wants to eat, so what?

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    Its annoying when they say their hungry and you offer something and they say they dont want it and then they say they want what was in their face the entire time.

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    She fails to decide what she wants to eat, turns down the offer of chicken and then moans when he ate in front of her. While I admit his reaction was rather extreme, she was also being an asshat. :P

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    Hey, just because she wanted KFC doesn't mean she wanted chicken. Maybe she just wanted their yummy mashed potatoes.
    This subliminal message could be meant for YOU. But it's probably not. Move along ;D

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    Isn't the general point in going to KFC to eat the chicken?

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    *insert comment about: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I'll die of bird flu11r67hs11!!!!11!!!!1!11 here*

    Nah, not always. I don't.

    Listen, Ballixtsjd Man, maybe your girlfriend just had a PMS craving for KFC mashed potatoes... Most women do. It's this phase we go through. You must live with it. Or DIE a painful death~
    This subliminal message could be meant for YOU. But it's probably not. Move along ;D

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