Personally, I love Chrono Cross, much more than Chrono Trigger. It may even appeal to you more because you seem to like newer games (based on your examples). But, as Lunar has said, everyone will tell you CC either rocks, sucks, or is no different.
I'd say the main reason that Chrono Series appeals to me is that it's based on Chronology, time travel, manipulation, FATE, da-da-da, etc, etc, and I find that subject deeply interesting and thought-provoking. Keep playing, and if you truly find it unbearable, I guess it's just not your cup of tea.
Nu nu.
