Thats the media for you. I remember a case from the UK from a few years ago. A female teacher slept with a male student, I think he was 15 at the time. And at first she was made to look like the victim, cause she was the woman and the boy must have made the first move on her cause he was a man. Very sterotypical. When in actual fact, she kissed him first and then it went on from there. Now he could have said no, but I guess what your in that situation you cant say anything? I really dunno. Straying from the subject, but yeah the media can cover your eyes from the actual story.