If you fight to pick on others, it's obviously to make yourself feel better and have others see you as stronger. I see them as weaker. If you can't solve your problems without violence, and "solve" them at the expense of others, you are weak both in the soul, for not having the strength to deal with your problems, and in the heart for not having any compassion for the one you're hurting. Those are my thoughts, they don't relate exactly to what you're talking about, per se, but it's still relavent.