Yeah, I agree with you on both counts. This post was way longer and more detailed but I just hit ctrl and some other button that made me skip back a page and lose it and now I can't be assed to type it out again.

I can't see how the second one is being cheap when both of you have to drive on the same course, it's not like you have an advantage.

If you're being cheap like, doing an infinate combo on someone in a fighting game, however, then you suck.