I think the most important thing to remember here is that FFXI IS JUST A GAME ! if u F'up .. (and U will) Don't beat urself up over it ... learn from ur mistake and tell the ppl in ur party to shut the hell up and ur sorry (lol maybe leave out the shut up part ^^) ... but this one time (i'll make this short) my pt was about to die ... like everone except me (AOE)(i still had half of my xp) ... and i was the whm ... so i had no choice but to use benediction ... i saved the party ... got kilt cause no one would provoke the mob off me ... and then i got yelled at cause they said i shouldn't have done that (cause they were fightin or somethin... either way it made no sense) ... am I the only one whos not anal about this game or just too easy goin ?
and btw ... i never read a rule state'in that i couldn't ...
My advice do what do and learn if you F'up and don't sweat the small stuff ... alot of this is learn'd as u go ... and u willl meet those anal ppl i was talkin about ... just ignore them (black listin is good too )... they have like no life or why would they make a game the center of their universe ... (?) and if i just described u pls don't flame me ... i get competitive