Would you consider it cheating if...?

[Jojee]

Pff *bites your face off*

Splitting straws~ Attempting to cheat, cheating, it's all the same to me Technicalities suck XD

[Shaun]

If he wanted to kiss you, he should have broken it off with her first. I believe people should be able to do what they want like that, and the truth is better than lies.

[eemica]

Most of you said its cheating..
I even asked my friend brother and he was all "No, I don't think its cheating." then I asked him HE has a girlfriend and she held hands with someone who use to like her, then he said yes. So I asked him to rethink what he said about how its not cheating--and he said it is.
I agree...
Its not the WORSE kind of cheating.
But cheating is when your dishonest and do something with somoene else that you know your boy/girl wouldn't like.

I tried talking to him about it.
And he pretended it never happened.
So, I don't know.

[NorthernChaosGod]

cheating

adj 1: not faithful to a spouse or lover;

Never says it has to be physical, just unfaithful. And holding hands LIKE THAT and trying to kiss IS being unfaithful, hence cheating.

Technically I'd say no.

How could you say that? Going around trying to kiss other girls while you have a girlfriend is technically not cheating? That kind of attitude makes me mad >;3

Yes, it's cheating.

That's attempting to cheat. Not cheating. Cheating is when you actually kiss. If it was considered cheating to hold hands, then I think the divorce rate would skyrocket.

I'm not saying it's okay to do it, I'm just saying that I consider cheating to be kissing at the least. Anything less is just inappropriate.

You don't have to cheat to be a crap boyfriend who doesn't deserve the girl, I assure you. Attempting to cheat is just as bad as cheating, although it's not technically cheating. Hence the rest of my post which you ignored!

Under the given circumstances it wasn't just a friendly handhold.

[Pure Aerisbeauty7]

It is cheating. He didn't kiss you but tried to, was holding your hand, and he told you not to tell. I think you should tell someone or he might start cheating on other girls.

[Dreddz]

Can you blame him ?

[NorthernChaosGod]

Can you blame him ?

There is no acceptable reason for cheating.

[ZeZipster]

Where do you think he was going with it? Honestly, I don't think the kiss was his top prerogative. But then again I'm a guy...

[Jimmy Dark Aeons Slayer]

You did the right thing because if you got into his game, then someone else would find out and tell his real girlfriend and then there would be one of those cat fights and the guy would still walk away with the prize unarmed

I know because i saw it happen with and old school buddy of mine in the end he left his girlfriend and changed it with another girl who was kind of a...well she was known for having very short relations:rolleyes2
The only diference was that they were at the beach at it was all very bright!!!

His ex-girlfriend actually dated me about 6 months so...it would appear i got the rejected one...but that was about 2 years ago already...those were the days

[udsuna]

It was attempted cheating. Which is JUST as bad, morally. And quite a bit more pathetic. I mean, come on, if you're gonna do it, at least do it RIGHT.


Plus, cheaters CHEAT. It's what they do. If once, then always again. Maybe they can't help it, maybe they're just scum, but given the chance- a player *plays*.