if you came at me like that i would totaly take you apart ... regarless if someone accuses you of whatever . I don't know you so i can't vouch that your not a racist.
and there wasn't any acusation implyed it was merely a statement . At least thats what i saw from a third person point of view.
My advice anger management ... and don't call me dear ... its very condescending IMO

Edit *** when you point the finger at some one you have three pointing right back at yourself.