Ok harsh Rye and yet I am faced with agreeing with you I'm a fine one to talk myself having lost my virginity at 14 but then I was 14 and was having protected sex with another virgin who I had known for a long time (long time in the eyes of a 14 year old maybe not so long now that I am 21) and yeah her being a virgin and me being a virgin didn't make it right but heck the past is the past and I atleast knew my partners past. I hope you learn from this that you need to be able to trust your partner and if you don't know the past don't go there. And also just cause a chick is easy or the college bike doesn't mean you should take a spin otherwise your just asking for stuff like this.