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    Quote Originally Posted by mooglegirl608
    Quote Originally Posted by Rye
    I'm not going to mince words, so here it is. Your decision was stupid and reckless. Why did you have sex with someone, at the age of 14, when you didn't KNOW if she could have had AIDs or STDs or such? Is it so incredibly hard to actually check into these things? Did you even use a condom? Now, I hope you don't have AIDs, don't get me wrong, but your decision was stupid. I hope you learn from this experience.

    That is, if this is even true. I agree with the post below mine by Carmilla. Anyway, I have nothing more to say about this.
    My thoughts exactly.
    Let's hope your safe.
    Agreed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bipper
    The aids virus is also small enough to pass through a condom ~ so that is never a safe answer.
    It certainly helps a lot. Nothing is 100% effective, but don't give anyone the impression that a condom won't help against HIV.

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    Quote Originally Posted by eiko guy
    age is just a number and she was 16
    This is the dumbest thing I have heard lately. Age can start being just a number when you're 50 and want to start seeing the world. Age is not just a number when you're 14 and could have potentially just contracted HIV.


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    The GOE ftw. I'll be completely frank. You deserve my pity, but I will withhold it form you.

    You definitely put yourself in a bad situation, in what was largely a selfish, and totally unnecessary act. I've got no sympathy for you, although my teenage male side of me is yelling "Good job! You scared with an older girl," but the rest of me, which is made primarily of severe and harsh judicators that enjoy other peoples' suffering, is somewhat happy that this is occuring to you at this time.

    I do sincerely hope you have not learned your lesson, and that you continue to pay for it.

    Probably not the best thing to do is to tell a gaming forum about your problems, especially of this magnitude.

    EDIT: Perhaps I'm being a bit harsh. Let's hope that your ex got it from a tattoo parlor with really bad sanitation, and used needles AFTER you had sex. Or the public toilet. That works, too.

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    There's a bunch of other fourteen year olds who have sex. He is one of them. They're all dumb for having done it, but so are the thirteen and twelve and fifteen and sixteen year olds.

    You have my best wishes in not contracting HIV, as regretable as your ideas on children and sex are. And in future you'll know whether or not you need to warn any partners ahead of time, to save them the agony you're going through now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roto13-ness
    Quote Originally Posted by bipper
    The aids virus is also small enough to pass through a condom ~ so that is never a safe answer.
    It certainly helps a lot. Nothing is 100% effective, but don't give anyone the impression that a condom won't help against HIV.
    I just meant to say that the condoms are not the safe answer. It is like thinking your ok riding a motorcycle wearing just a helmet. IT does help, but raping ones point is counterproductive as well. The aids virus can pass through [even] the newer latex based condoms. Granted, they reduce the medium by which the virus usually travels, thus greatly neutralising the chance. However, it only takes one viral unit to pass through the condom wall. I hardly call that safer. Statistically, it might be. But when you are dealing with an agonising death, I would like a 100% positive answer. kthx.

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    That's real bad, I'm hoping for the best!
    EDIT: The best being that you do not have it!

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    i did know the girl she was my ex girlfriend not ex smurfbuddy i used a condom and all that but you never know so im getting checked and i am hella worried right now


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    as everyones clearly being nasty, i think ill be the nice one for change

    what youre all saying is true, but frig sake ive got no idea how this guy feels, he really must be going through hell, so save the scolding till later, at the present moment he needs our help.

    whens your results? have you got someone rather than us to seek help from?

    EDIT- in fact its even worse, when you consider his age. hes only 14. im 17 and id crack under pressure like that. so lay off, everyone made your point


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    Yeah,sorry if we were too harsh.Scolding comes later.

    Yeah,you should really tell someone ho can actually,physically help you.Not us FF-geeks.


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    Well, hopefully you'll learn a lesson from all this. Best of luck to you...

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    First, I think you should talk to the girl and convince her to tell anyone who she is involved with that she has this condition. No need in putting more in that stressful situation.

    Second, this is okay since you'll learn to keep it in your pants. I don't mean to be harsh, but it's like, if you're going to get involved sexually, when you're 14 or 24 doesn't matter, ALWAYS make sure that your partner is safe. If they hesitate, go with them to the clinic to make sure they're not heartless bastards who want to spread it or are indifferent about it.

    Third, I really really hope that you are safe. Good luck.

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    ive called everyone of my friends we are going to mindy's house when i get the result to either party or mope

    see i went with the girl about half a year ago i was still 14 and now they say if i have it it wont take too long to find out


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    is Mindy the girl with AIDs?


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    no mindy is like my bestfriend


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