That is kinda your fault u know,having sex at an early age,sorry to hear about it though...Originally Posted by eiko guy
I agree!Originally Posted by Rye
That is kinda your fault u know,having sex at an early age,sorry to hear about it though...Originally Posted by eiko guy
I agree!Originally Posted by Rye
It's not entirely his fault.
Did this chick know she was infected before she slept with you?
Ok harsh Rye and yet I am faced with agreeing with you. I'm a fine one to talk myself having lost my virginity at 14 but then I was 14 and was having protected sex with another virgin who I had known for a long time (long time in the eyes of a 14 year old maybe not so long now that I am 21). And yeah her being a virgin and me being a virgin didn't make it right but heck the past is the past and I atleast knew my partners past. I hope you learn from this that you need to be able to trust your partner and if you don't know the past don't go there.Originally Posted by Rye
Also just cause a chick is easy or the college bike doesn't mean you should take a spin otherwise your just asking for stuff like this.
Edit: added some punctuation to that post as it made no sense to me in hind sight.
Last edited by Iceglow; 08-04-2006 at 10:57 PM.
What you say? There really are no periods in that besides the end. I found it hard to read.Ok harsh Rye and yet I am faced with agreeing with you I'm a fine one to talk myself having lost my virginity at 14 but then I was 14 and was having protected sex with another virgin who I had known for a long time (long time in the eyes of a 14 year old maybe not so long now that I am 21) and yeah her being a virgin and me being a virgin didn't make it right but heck the past is the past and I atleast knew my partners past. I hope you learn from this that you need to be able to trust your partner and if you don't know the past don't go there. And also just cause a chick is easy or the college bike doesn't mean you should take a spin otherwise your just asking for stuff like this.
Anyway, good luck with the results. I hope you don't have it, but you really shouldn't of had sex at 14.
Maybe checking was done, and at the time the person she slept with was unaware they had AIDS?Originally Posted by Rye
Well, it wasn't advisable to have sex at that age, but I'm not going to condemn or criticize you for it. Primarily because you might have AIDS, which kind of pisses on anything I could say to you.
Despite this, take heart. AIDS medications are improving every day - sadly we're not yet at the stage where they're exceptionally good and dirt cheap, but we are still at a stage where they are a good bet, and won't leave you entirely bankrupt if you budget yourself. Still, in ten, twenty years time, it probably won't be a consideration (And by the mid-30s very little will be a consideration).
We need you here. Don't go off getting diseases. This isn't the 60's anymore. Good luck.
Best of luck with the results. I have a feeling that things will be ok for you. Just let this be a well-deserved scare for you.
Str8 Pimpin'
I think we scared her away beacause of all our negative comments-serves her right!
I'm very conflicted in this. One side of me wishes you the best of luck with the results. The other is calling you a moron, and almost thinks you deserve it for 'doing the deed' at such a young age. The side that's calling you a moron is winning. It's a shame. Kids these days need to think these kind of things through before execution.
Let me tell you right now, age is far from a number, and cannot be ignored. Age tells us about maturity and ingnorance. And seeing that you did this, you were being very nescient, as most 14 year olds are.age is just a number and she was 16
More importantly, age reflects how much of your life will have been lost if it's positive.
Capisce.
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Yeah, see, I really don't think many people in their entire lives do anything so bad they deserve to have a long-term disease as significant as AIDS. That's like saying someone deserves to have cirrhosis because they got drunk when they're 14.Originally Posted by Decessus
No, age tells us about potential maturity. I know plenty of people twice as old who are just as thoughtless. It's just that if someone does have the capacity to be mature, they're more likely to have figured more related matters out when they're older, through simple experience.Let me tell you right now, age is far from a number, and cannot be ignored. Age tells us about maturity and ingnorance. And seeing that you did this, you were being very nescient, as most 14 year olds are.
I agree witth Rye.
Your decision was reckless, do you even think of what's going to happen after what you have done? I'm sorry, I'm not trying to be harsh but your parent will be more 'harsher' than us if they heard this (Their son future and the other girls (The one with AIDS) future and blah, blah, blah). Best of luck with the results.
Decessus, I'm not in that nescient group!! I'm not a nescient 14!
The Late Owen Macwere Production.
I was having sex at 11.