Craziest thing you have done in the name of love?

[exit60b]

I worked full time for 6 months (relationship length). Post relationship length I visited windsor several times.

Now I didn't spend every cent I made, but let's take a 9 month run.

I made 3000$ a month. So that's 18000$.

Where did this money go? By today it would've increased to a compound interest amount of probably 25000$ easily.

I spent it on:

- trips to a 400 km distance via train and bus or whatever
- dinners for her and her cousin who I really enjoyed the company of (odd thing to do now that I look back on it)
- myself (mostly)
- pie

Now, I'm not blaming her on me not having 18k; I'm blaming myself. I still spend all my money unless I consciensciously save my cash. But spending as much money as I did on a relationship when she barely spent anything on me (in comparison), that's wrong.

THat's the craziest thing I've ever done. I'd be crazy to do it again.

most of my $ spent when it came to our relationship would be my bus rides to kaneohe via waipahu or town, which is like a three hour, four bus adventure, maybe three times a week. bus fare is like $2.... so for months, i was broke because i spent so much on the bus... which i didnt know could add up.... i would offer to pay, but if he did accept, he would make me feel bad because then he would say 'i cant pick the movie because you paid, or i cant pick the place to eat....' when really.... he pays, most of the time. sigh. how noble.

[Captain Maxx Power]

Well I once came in the name of love, I once came and went, I once came here to justify, I once came to overthrow, in the name of love. What more? In the name of love! In the name of love. What more, in the name of love?

[Pike]

what is the craziest thing you have done in the name of love?

I quit a very well-paying job so I could go spend a couple of weeks with my internet-boy.


(and now that song is stuck in my head )