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    When your by yourself and too self reliant, it is hard to tell if you exist. You have no social reflection to look at, and therefor feel lost. The simple answer is to socialise, but the harder answer would be define yourself outside of social construct, if being social just is not your thing.

    It is extremly normal for one to go through identity crisis. Thought your immediate identity may be clear, sometimes you have to look a little deeper at the why. Why am I a loner? Why do I have what aspireations I have.

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    You need your frinds to basically prove themselves to you. Basicallically show you that they are not friends based on fisade alone. I know what it is like to have a friend or what have your, and be lonely. There is a certain faith that needs to happen, a bond to be made or mend. From there, I would not be able to help unless you can figure what bond was broken that made your feel the way you do about social relationships.

    That is just my immediate opinion on the subject.

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    no I think you're right. I know if my friends want to do something with me, I'd jump at it and go with them, even if I don't particularly enjoy that, but none of my friends have ever done that for me. So while I'm sure I've proven my friends can rely on me, I don't feel I can rely on any of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Levian View Post
    The problem is you have no friends?

    An easy way to gain new friends is getting a job. You'll meet tons of new people and they're easy to talk to because you have much in common. I guess you could always sign up for some courses or some activities if you don't want to get a job. But really, this is just a guess in the dark, you'll have to elaborate if you want help from us, if that is what you want.
    I can see where you're coming from here, but it's not always that simple. Though I guess I can't exactly place myself in his shoes, with me having autism, but as he's at a similar age to me, it's hard to get an ideal job. The job I have certainly hasn't helped me, and I've found that it's the complete opposite and I've had nothing in common. What I'm trying to say here, is that if he's still in education, he's not going to have that freedom with jobs. I guess I'm no good at explaining this... XD

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    friends suck.....humans suck period "...." ....we jus take everythin and then are like....sucky about it.....

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