The only thing I guess it really bothers me with it Xchat. It's already set up to give the URGENT hint when a highlight (or nick triggered otherwise by a script I wrote) is triggered, prettymuch for the same reason as a Gaim window - I use it as my primary means of communication.

Come to think of it, I could write it into my Xchat highlighting script to change the window title, I think. I'll have to fiddle around with setting the window manager to do the things that I want it to do. Thanks