It's not a question of 'doing her'. If i wanted to sleep with her I am sure she would have consented. But i didn't want to sleep with her because i know thats not what she wanted. She wanted a relationship. I dont use people for sex.

For those that say, 'no, no i wouldn't' there is also this to consider. Sometimes those that are promiscuous conceal their sexual history when they are genuinely in love with a person. Suppose you were to find out their history after falling in love with the person, maybe having children and being married, etc...

Would you suddenly divorce them if the truth came out? Even if they were very loyal throughout their marriage?

Thats why i feel sexual history is unimportant to the nature of a persons heart and personality and their actions later in life.