Quote Originally Posted by Miriel View Post
30+ people? I'd be all, "daaaang, wtf you man whore?!" And it would bother me a lot cause I don't want to be with a man whore and I'd always be afraid that one day, while we were still together, he'd go off and be all man whorish and break my heart.

She just had a really bad childhood.

I mean, really, REALLY bad and she had a hard life. Her Dad was a complete scumbag and I pretty much understand why she went the way she did. Girls, and guys, can end up looking for affection in the wrong places and people can exploit that.

Thats why I am not so quick to judge anymore. Sex is one thing. But the make-up of the persons mind, and what they have been through, is another entirely.

Edit: She hasn't slept with 30+ people. It's more like 100+ Those thirty are the ones I know about and have spoken to at some point when I was younger.

I just also believe that mistakes people make when they are younger should NOT be held against them when they are older. It's not right to do that, in my opinion. When we are young we can be easily led and are "impressionable". We should not be judged on mistakes that we make then. Which is why I just think stuff like (young) sexual history should be over-looked in favour of personality and AS LONG AS the person has grown up and become more mature because of their experiences, like Louisa has.