Makes sense. I just wanted to make a point, anyway. :P
Yes, it would. I would not date anyone who had a lot of sexual partners.
No, I don't think I could care at all. It does not bother me.
I don't know 
Makes sense. I just wanted to make a point, anyway. :P
~Ye must desire respite from thy empty existence. Thou shalt have it.~
morally a virgin...yeah sounds good
So what about "born again virgins"?
~Ye must desire respite from thy empty existence. Thou shalt have it.~
hah i'm pretty sure there is no going back...sometimes i wish i could
I never really got that.Originally Posted by ValkyrieWing
Once you get a taste of Big Jim you wonīt want anything else in your life who cares about the past!As long as they donīt have any disease.
Yet for some reason i didnīt vote that...
Yes, it would affect my decision.
I wouldn't want to end up with a bargain-basement whore, now would I?
"As the days go by, we face the increasing inevitability that we are alone in a godless,
uninhabited, hostile and meaningless universe. Still, you've got to laugh, haven't you?"
Why bother?At least they have more experience in "doing it".But if it's rape then it's another story.
What about the option: "I would not date anyone who has not had a lot of experience?"
Far as I'm concerned, there's not a human alive who has the right to judge. If someone's had sex- it was either something meaningful and good. Or it was something they regret doing. Either way, anyone can list things they regret doing, and who can begrudge someone a good thing?
Except prostitutes. Something about someone who does it for money bothers me. Not as pathetic as people who pay for it, though.
I had 2 partners before I met my ex, he had loads. But I didnt care because I wanted to be close and personal with him. But if he came back to me after being with other people, then I couldnt be with him, knowing someone else has been with him instead of me.
If she's had a lot of sexual partners, then she's got a personality that doesn't match mine, so we probably wouldn't fit together anyway. And I'd feel weird being with someone who's been with very many people. It's not that I think she would cheat, it's just that it's icky. I know a girl who's been with 50 men. Yeah, she told me. I know they're not all like her, but she went on internet chat sites looking for men to have sex with. She even had a sexual relationship with a married man. Now that's an example of a girl that I wouldn't want to date. All I'm saying is I most likely wouldn't date a chick who's been with very many men, but no rule without exceptions. I know a girl who's had 2 abortions by the time she turned 16, don't know her body count, but she's definitely date material, even though I'd probably feel weird at first. Oh, and she'd have to take a test. Twice, naked.
The only thing that matters is that nobody is being deceitful to each other. Does she have partners now that you don't know about and care about (like you want to know if this is an open relationship)?
Because what she did before she dates you is none of your business and shouldn't matter. It matters in the sense that you might CARE that she might have herpes or other STDs but she can just get tested for you and there you go -- she's clean so does it still matter she had sex with 100 guys?
For me very few things matter in a relationship. Only the important things: attraction, respect, and pie.
Hymen Reconstruction Surgery. HRS for short. Hymenologists do them all the time.
While I do not believe that intercourse is a sacred or incredibly special thing, I believe that a number should be within reason for a persons age. An 18-year-old who has had more than twenty partners in her entire life is utterly ridiculous, especially when considering that she probably started no later than 15 years of age. However, if a 30-year-old has had about twenty partners, it is slightly more understandable.
This is not to say that an excess of partners is a good thing. Random sex with a different partner every other day or even week isn't really my thing and I frown slightly upon it. I don't normally judge a person though.
I think I lost sight of the question.
100 partners is far too large a number for me to even fathom. I would probably not do anything of the sort with her, regardless of how I felt about the person.
"I was single, and I went clubbing often. And I am good at what I do *wink*"
100 partners works. The above sounds like a male centric reason though. However I don't see why a female can't say the same thing.
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