View Poll Results: Would you forgive a girl/guy who cheated on you and continue the relationship?

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  • Yes, if I cared about them. I would try and improve it and forgive them.

    16 30.19%
  • No, I wouldn't. I would end the relationship.

    22 41.51%
  • I don't know

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    You didn't put the animal/plant option in the question.

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    I refuse to associate with people who cheat on other people. Actually, I refuse to associate with people who are the people that people cheat on other people with.

    *explodes*

    So no, someone like that isn't good enough for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roto13-ness View Post
    I refuse to associate with people who cheat on other people. Actually, I refuse to associate with people who are the people that people cheat on other people with.

    *explodes*

    So no, someone like that isn't good enough for me.
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    Nope! If you turn down the LevLove, there's no turning back. Out of my life, woman.

    Simple as that.


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    I definitely forgive my girlfriend but I don't think we can become lovers anymore, just friends.

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    I really don't know...but if that happens...which it wont because i'm never gonna get a gf...back to the topic...if that happens...I'll be beside her forever...of course as a good friend that is...


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    I don't think I'd forgive them unless they apologise. This is my new opinion, if I was asked this few months ago I'd have said that I'd forgive them even without apologising.
    Now things are different and I think I got tougher and solid, I wont forgive without apologising any more. It doesn't worth it.
    From what I have seen in life, it is not easy to go on after someone has cheated on you, or have neglected the friendship between me and him/her. Still it all depends on how we live and what we go through.
    Few months ago I'd say, I'll forgive. Now I wont.
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    I can understand why she would do it. I can even understand why she did it.

    What I can't understand is why she'd disrespect me on that level. And rather ponder this and distrust her for all time, I would sooner dump her and avoid thinking about this ever again.

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    if it happens to me id be all in her face and like.... "you filthy skanky whorebag....."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Devil Man View Post
    But if I was with the person for a long time, like many months or years, then I think I would forgive them and try and repair the relationship. If it was partly my fault for the person cheating on me (ie, if I was neglecting her in some way) or if it was a one-off mistake, like a one-night stand, and my girlfriend/wife deeply regretted what had happened, then I would forgive them and try and continue and improve the relationship. I wouldn't want to waste all the good months and years I'd spent with someone because of a bad period in a relationship. I think it's too easy to give up on relationships these days because of mistakes and it's better to try and improve something that was once special.
    Er... see I don't understand that. AT ALL. I think that forgiving someone for cheating early on in the relationship, before feelings get too involved and such is much more understandable and reasonable than forgiving someone for cheating after you've been together for awhile.

    Seriously, it's so much more of a betrayal to cheat on someone you're in a established relationship with rather than cheating on someone you've gone on a few dates with. Let's say you did have something amazing and special, the person who cheated on you just threw all that away. It's such a huge action of disrespect, such a huge betrayal of trust.

    In whatever case, cheating is unacceptable and I'd break it off if I were ever cheated on.

    Cause I'm awesome and I deserve better than that.

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    It depends on the situation for me to forgive something like infidelity.

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    I'd hit them with a stick :twak: that'll teach them.

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    INFIDELS!

    *ululates*

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    If you lot had super sperm then they wouldn´t have left you!!!!!!!!!!

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    Depends on how far along the relationship has been, or the nature of the relationship.

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