Well, what I would do is this. I would tell them "If you cheat, that's the end. I'm telling you in advance." I'd also expect the same from them. Then if they cheated, it's over.
Yes, if I cared about them. I would try and improve it and forgive them.
No, I wouldn't. I would end the relationship.
I don't know 
Well, what I would do is this. I would tell them "If you cheat, that's the end. I'm telling you in advance." I'd also expect the same from them. Then if they cheated, it's over.
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I say yes, but only if I really cared for the person enough and the cheating wasn't that bad, as in there wasn't any form of sex involved. But that's it, again and it's over.
never been in a position to be cheated on...so i have no idea
I would end the relationship. However in my last relationship, I did something with my ex and told him and he told me how some girl who fancied him kissed him, but he said he stopped it from going further. That was 7 months in and we forgave each other. But if it happened further into the relatioship, there would be no forgiveness. Im not the most confident person in the world and it would beyond hurt me if my guy did that to me.
This would basically happen to me if someone cheated on me.
Of course I have to have someone in oder for someone to cheat on me but still.
Yeah, I think I'd be the same. It's so hard to know what I'd be like in that sort of a situation, though. Although it does depend on how they cheated - if it was some long-term thing, the relationship would be over. One night stand sort of thing....ack. I would probably want to forgive but the whole probably not being able to trust them ever again, and being hurt like that might make it too terrible to continue.Originally Posted by Rye
Hmm!
If it were my husband, I would want to try to to heal the relationship, but I think I'm too jealous to actually deal with it. If his cheating didn't make me leave him, my 'boil the bunny' jealousy would make him leave me.
But then again, he doesn't have the cojones to cheat on me. And I am too lazy to try to cover up another relationship...
To me sex is just not big a deal. It depends on WHY my partner cheated.
Yeah. I think that cuddling and holding hands would hurt me even more than just sex.
Jeez guys, this isn't EoEO. Where are all the comments about threesomes and such? I'm so disappointed right now.
I already posted about threesomes in the other sex thread.
Having sex with someone else = instant breakup material.
For less than sex, I used to let it go if the girlfriend regretted it and came clean fast, but these days I'm a lot less tolerant and would be much more likely to dump them. Still, not 100% sure. Depends on the circumstances.
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threesomes and other sexfests dont count as cheatin if theyre ther aswel participatin or wathcin or whatvere......already posted about threesomes in the other sex thread.
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cheating just for kisses, but even if there was sex involved I'd forgive him but I think I'd break up with him! That would mean that he wasn't patient AND didn't respect me!
Dunno...one part of me would still want to make it work...the other would be so hurt, I'd say something irreconciliable.
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