I like fire golem xD Not to worry, I shall only have one point in all of the golems and I shall invest a few points into golem mastery.

As for you questions from the game:
Homonc=58
Don't bother with strength points, I have rings that give 10, 15 and 20 strength for you to use.

A dusk shroud has 118 or so as its strength requirement.
I have decided that we should use a pincer effect when the time comes versus simple attacking from the same side. But, keep in mind, running through the middle is not advisable as it summons the enemies. They'll come at my golem and when he's about to die I'll resummon him in the middle of the largest group of enemies and then again immediately after. This has worked for me on countless occasions. Of course, not during Ubers. I have only been present for 2 uber runs. One was my own with the help of Killa. The other I don't remember much because I was just sitting there in town.
Anyway, we will deal with all that as the time comes. I am still only 47 and will be that way for at least until next weekend. Or Sunday when I get back, I'm not sure the condition I will be in at that point.