Use a small razor blade. If you are good; you can do it with out her [him???] evenknowing. If you are bad - bring a sponge.

Cereal advice: Pull the strap back and make sure it is tight. User your index finger to hold the bra back, and thumb to push in on the left side and the back of your middle to push the hooks left toward the thumb. With the applied pressure(s) and direction, the bra will clip free and you will be so bouncie happy the couple of jubblies in your face will not even matter.

Bipper