Though I have to comment on this one, Lindy if you have actually lost your virginity (which unfortunately for me I know you have) and you never managed this simple excercise in the bedroom skills class then what hope do you have of ever managing to get far with women? no offence meant but well you gotta admit this is a pretty simple thing to do and most guys know it instinctively after the first time they try it infact most guys just know it.