If you murder someone and you were never found out, does that mean you are innocent?
If you murder someone and you were never found out, does that mean you are innocent?
I am going to play both sides here.
I can sort of see a way that you may not be 'cheating on her'. The issue is it is all about how one defines the word. Some people only view cheating as 'romantic' cheating. In other words it is only cheating if you are trying to have two(or more) girl/boy freinds or the ilk at once. However, many people also include that having sex with another is cheating.
So in the end I have decided to throw all that BS out the window. Cheating simply is betraying the trust of your girlfreind/boyfreind/husband/wife/etc. This throws out trying to stick a particular methodology to it. All that matters is what trusts the other has put into you. If she trusts you to be celibate cept for her, then you would be cheating. If she trusts you not to be celibate cept for her then you would not be cheating(no betrayal of trust). Etc, etc, etc...
So are you cheating? I don't konw. However, the fact that you feel the need to hide it from your current GF sounds to me like she trusts you not to have sex with others.
Someone needs to change the title of this thread to "Devil Man bashing".
People can get mad at me but...
Monogamy is un-natural anyway. You don't see animals in the wild just having sex with one animal do you? Like... chickens have lots and lots of sexual partners! So do monkeys! And so do sheep. Animals copulate with many other animals.
It is just un-natural for one person to have sex with just one person for the rest of their life. It is wierd.
Likewise...
It is wierd to just have sex with your girlfriend if someone else offers you something so niceThis lesbian chick is really pretty and I am looking forward to next month and, yeah, she knows my no-condoms policy.
I would regret it for the rest of my life if I said 'no' to her, so, really, I have no choiceI don't want to have regrets anymore!
We'll see Devil Man in the free clinic in a few months.
I wouldn't want to spend my entire life being monogamous. The whole emotion of 'love' is something I'd rather look for, as opposed to sleeping around.
Of course I would mind!
My girlfriend... I can see myself having children with her one day. She would make a good mother because she is also good at cooking and cleaning.
I would not want her to be some slut!
And my analogy was not stupid. It's a fact. Almost all animals have many different sexual partners throughout their lives. Like Lions have other lionesses. Only penguins don't, but their a stupid animal anyway (or are they mammals? bah, same difference)
And, yeah, I still don't think I am cheating on my girlfriend. She won't find out as she has a completely different set of friends. And besides... my lesbian friend is a lesbian so, techincally, it isn't cheating at all.
Yes, actually, you do see several species partner for life. And using an animal as an analogy to justify human behavior is always a piss-poor excuse.
Exactly, it goes both ways. If you don't want her cheating on you, you don't cheat on her. There's no way around that. Just because you don't get caught or the other party doesn't know about it doesn't make it not cheating. Maybe you try to tell yourself this stuff so that you can justidy living such an immoral and sleazy life, but you <b>are cheating on her</b>.
And not using condoms? How stupid can you be? You get a girl pregnant, you're responsible for the baby, regardless of your feelings on the subject. And no, not every girl is going to want to get an abortion. Not using a condom ranks your intellegence with that of a rock.
Well... I do not wish to be the subject of a torrent of abuse, so I hope you can all simply respect my lifestyle as I respect yours.
First: as for getting a girl pregnant... it hasn't happened yet. And I am pretty sure I am sterile (because I have been tested with good results).
Second: I only tend to sleep with drop-dead gorgeous, attractive girls, so I have no problems with being a Dad as my kiddy would definetly be cute. And I would be a great Dad too.
Third: It's also a girls responsibility to not get pregnant. She can use morning-after pills, which I sometimes helpfully supply.
Fourth: It really is not cheating because my girlfriend will absolutely not know about it.
Fifth: I will be sleeping with a lesbian and because she is a lesbian, and not straight, it definetly IS NOT cheating. No way.