Devil Man's Lesbian Problem

[My_car_is_faster_than_you]

Loyalty is a beautiful thing, that's all I can say. I hope you see that someday.

[Lord Xehanort]

cheating

adj 1: not faithful to a spouse or lover

NOWHERE does it say 'getting caught being unfaithful'. NOR does it say 'having sex with a straight individual other than one's spouse or lover'.

Having sex with this girl while you already have a girlfriend is immoral, irresponsible and cheating. Not feeling bad about it is heartless and I hope your girlfriend finds out about your "chick on the side".

Also, while many animals have multiple sexual partners, they allow their current partners to have multiple partners. If your girlfriend having sex with another guy makes her a slut, then you having sex with another girl makes YOU a slut. I bet that if your girlfriend said, "Sweetie, I'm having sex with this gay guy who I don't love but just wanna get it on with, I only love you so it's okay", you'd slap her. Placing yourself on a separate playing field is sexist and foolish.

You would never make a good husband, because you'd probably cheat on your wife, too.

Also, even if you and your girlfriend have different friends, she WILL find out. Either you'll call her the wrong name in sex, or this lesbian's friends will tell their friends, will tell their friends, will tell etc... who will tell your girlfriend.

And, to top it all off, you might get herpes.

Even considering that it's not cheating because it's with a lesbian ((who is obviously not a 6 on the scale, because she has interest in sex with men, placing her somewhere from 3-5)) and that it's okay because you'll keep it a secret says nothing good about your character. Sex without love is hurt. I was in a sex without love relationship, and I still cry. You ARE hurting people... and all your secrets only make you despicable.

[ShunNakamura]

cheat (cht) Pronunciation Key Audio pronunciation of "cheating" [P]
v. cheat·ed, cheat·ing, cheats
v. tr.

1. To deceive by trickery; swindle: cheated customers by overcharging them for purchases.
2. To deprive by trickery; defraud: cheated them of their land.
3. To mislead; fool: illusions that cheat the eye.
4. To elude; escape: cheat death.


v. intr.

1. To act dishonestly; practice fraud.
2. To violate rules deliberately, as in a game: was accused of cheating at cards.
3. Informal. To be sexually unfaithful: cheat on a spouse.


n.

1. An act of cheating; a fraud or swindle.
2. One who cheats; a swindler.
3. Law. Fraudulent acquisition of another's property.
4. Botany. An annual European species of brome grass (Bromus secalinus) widely naturalized in temperate regions.

cheat
One entry found for cheat.
Main Entry: 1cheat
Pronunciation: 'chEt
Function: verb
Etymology: 2cheat
transitive verb
1 : to deprive of something valuable by the use of deceit or fraud
2 : to influence or lead by deceit, trick, or artifice
3 : to elude or thwart by or as if by outwitting <cheat death>
intransitive verb
1 a : to practice fraud or trickery b : to violate rules dishonestly <cheat at cards> <cheating on a test>
2 : to be sexually unfaithful -- usually used with on <was cheating on his wife>
3 : to position oneself defensively near a particular area in anticipation of a play in that area <the shortstop was cheating toward second base>

Go on ahead and look through it Mr. Devil Man. It appears that you are cheating by several definitions of the word.

Once again I will re-itterate it would not be cheating if you did not have to hide it. The fact that you feel the need to hide it indicates that faithful in your Girl-freind's mind means not to go sleeping around.

[Vincent, Thunder God]

Yes you are cheating on her. Just because you say it isn't doesn't make it so.

Your morals on this subject sicken me.

I respect your opinions, but I disagree because...

I am not cheating on her. And why am I not cheating on her?

Because she won't know about it!

I've always stuck to that old saying. 'What you don't know can't hurt you'

And she will never find out!

It seems the thread has entered a new level of debate! There isn't a "Will this work with a lesbian" debate, it's "Oh, I have a girlfriend already too" debate. And I simply must enter the ring (even if I'm starting to wonder about the truth of this story) !

Does trust mean NOTHING to you? The point of having a girlfriend isn't about having sex (with or without the partner, in this case :rolleyes2) it's about having an intellectual relationship with someone. Talking to them. Loving the simple things in life with them. Having someone to love at a deeper level. Someone to trust when you need help in your life. The list goes on.

It's not about desicrating your honour with a paltry squirt of liquid, indulging in forbidden actions with someone who won't even enjoy it romantically or in a sexual way. Your girlfriend trusts you! She loves you! And how do you expect to keep another relationship going IF you can convert a lesbian into another girlfriend ?!?

Worse, you could impregnate the lesbian if you don't use a condom! What a fine affair then!

This is truly mind-boggling to me!

People can get mad at me but...

Monogamy is un-natural anyway. You don't see animals in the wild just having sex with one animal do you? Like... chickens have lots and lots of sexual partners! So do monkeys! And so do sheep. Animals copulate with many other animals.

It is just un-natural for one person to have sex with just one person for the rest of their life. It is wierd.

Likewise...

It is wierd to just have sex with your girlfriend if someone else offers you something so nice This lesbian chick is really pretty and I am looking forward to next month and, yeah, she knows my no-condoms policy.

I would regret it for the rest of my life if I said 'no' to her, so, really, I have no choice I don't want to have regrets anymore!

Regrets? Truly you don't understand the concept, just as you don't understand the concept of truth, trust and love. You understand the definitions... just not the ramifications of the terms, the connections.

If I ever cheated on a girl, I would regret that all my life, not ignoring sexual attraction.

And do you want to be like monkeys and chickens? Living without restraint and reason? Human maturity is all about restraint. Animals go around and kill each other, yet we have the reason not to go to war; they force others to give up food, while we are humane enough to give to charity to keep other starving humans alive; animals have sex with all sorts of partners, but we can actually live in real relationships.

We could all give in to our sexual fantasies, but we have the possibility of empathy! Do you not understand that one either?

[Yamaneko]

Why is this thread still open? He's obviously lying about all this, so I'll just close it.

[Kawaii Ryûkishi]

It was fun either way.

[Yamaneko]

Yop.