Interference?

[Fuego]

Well, I don't think people who interfere are always bad. I mean, when the person who is being interfered to be interfered with for some sort of problem that they can't get over without someone else (drug addiction, alcoholism, etc.) then it's right to interfere.

However, if it's something as miniscule as a little high school relationship then it isn't right to interfere (unless something big is going on, such as abuse going on between them).

Honestly Tan, how many Middle or high schoolers are ACTUAL drug addicts and alcoholics ... ?

Its mostly just people who have nothing better to do .... and should be stoned ... not stoned as in wanna get high ... i mean I PITTY THE FOO and chuck a rock at their skull !


***EDIT***
I agree interventions are one thing though ... and sometimes needed . this is different situation altogether .

[farplaner]

My girlfriend's friend was like" Dude. Youre not giving her space. GO away, then she told me our math teacher said that when tehy were tlaking Im not giving her own life, im crowding ehr to much, and this relation ship wont last, yaddah yaddah yaddah. Little did they know, my gf hates space. So SCORE( not the adult way)! ME 1, them none. I just feel like saying, Ill run stuff how I want to run stuff( I dont mean as in control everything, but make my own mistakes and what not).

So, after reading my rant, the question is Do you hate when people interfere with something that isn't even about them??

Has it occured to you that her friend may be jealous of the time she spends with you? If this is the case, maybe you should try warming up to her friend (if it can be done safely) so there's no tension there.

On the other hand, seeing as how you are in middle school, you and your girl will probably be over each other in a week or two (no offense).

[Spammerman]

If shes like me for more thann a year, you think itll be over that fast? Or am i just optimistic due to my inexperience with relationships?