when someone gets called a fag or faggot i just say "why are you calling that dude a meatball?" lol but yeah using a comback like "oh you love me really if you wanted a date all you had to do was ask!" is much more embarrassing and effective against the bullys and bigots than ignoring it or just simply knocking heads together becuase then they know it bothers you and they'll do it all the more!