I agree with you more than anyone in this post IceAngel He didn't suddenly switch to loving her, it's just peopple are to ignorant to see the fact.

And I don't find her anoying, I like her aswell. The plot wasn't forced either.

The 30 years is a reference to the "Oposite Atraction" debate, everyone said it doesn't work and if it did it wouldn't last long.