Sorry, but I have to...

1. Neither of them are gay.
2. You were WAY too hard on them! Sure, you've never liked each other, but I think you went over the line with the stuff about his family etc.
3. Punctuation is your friend.

(I know all of these guys in real life by the way, in case you were wondering.)

Anyway, on topic: Just ignore them, seriously. People sometimes hold a grudge against me. My sister for instance, still remembers when I drank "too much" of her milkshake like 3 years ago!