Except they aren't, so illusions get shattered and I don't care about Innocent girls any more.

I tend to apply a 'what you see is what you get' view of females. It might not always apply but it's safer than making assumptions which make an ass out of me in the end.

I'm not sure where I'm going with this. Oh yeah: find a girl that geniunely fits what you are looking for in a mate.