Everyone is looking for something different. And that goes without saying for people living in the non-West. Our notions of the perfect mate are generally derived from enculturation, but we all share the desire to consummate and that doesn't change across borders. It's those things that lead up to the act that vastly differ.

Personally I wouldn't want any extreme. It's good to be with someone who has some experience that you may share with and learn about, but I wouldn't want someone that was totally out there. I also wouldn't like if they were completely clueless about certain things.