I need some help and opions...
Well I have a gf, and I've been with her for about a year. And I don't really talk to her much, except with e-mail. And its because shes really shy and doesn't really like to talk much, like the "The quiet girl" and my friends have been really pushing me to talk to her. I just was wanting some tips maybe or just someones oppion.
Wait. You have a girlfriend but you don't speak to her? Wierd. Maybe you should go out with someone you actually talk to.
Wow I was in almost the exact situation awhile ago. I had a girlfriend but I had to move but we stayed in touch via email and every vacation time I would visit my town and her.
You could ask her to get a messenger program and chat/talk to each other on there.
And then there is always webcams and mic's.
MMM... maybe you should try and talk to her. Like not alot at first but then gradualy get more and more talkitive with her.
If she is shy than talk with her alone...
Think of something she likes and pretend you like it too
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I really hope that was a joke. Dont EVER do that, you dont wanna found your relationship on incencerity (the hell do i spell that?).Originally Posted by blackmage_nuke
Anyway, what you need to work on is getting her to feel comfortable around you. Make sure that she knows your a trustworthy companion, let her know you want to listen to her and get to know her better. Let her know that if she ever has any problems and needs someone to talk to, that you're happy to listen and help. Once she feels at ease around you and trusts that you're sincere, she should begin to open up.
And i like what Magus of Zeal said. Its hard for me to start relationships (including basic friendship) in person, i'm uber shy and cant ever think of what to say, so have her get AIM or whatever, just talk casually over that, build things up gradually. DONT let your friends pressure you. I guarantee you that if you try to rush this, you'll only hurt things.
Yeah try and talk on msn. It can be real fun ^_~ And then maybe if she comes out of herself on there she will then find it easier to do so in real life. And hey sometimes talking isn't the most important thing if you two can be happy together in silence, then that's fine too. But yeah if you want to talk more, try and talk to her but ask her stuff about herself and the stuff she's into too. I find, and personally it's a lot easier to talk about stuff you're into and then even quiet people can't shut up about some things. xD
probably should've been posted in eoeo, but what the hell. I guess I have never had this kind of situation, going out with someone and not talking to them? Seriously sounds screwy imho but heck I'm one guy and as I have proven before in my actions and my relationships, what the hell do I know about women? Try talking to her, talking is like one of the most important things in relationships even if she is shy she should feel comfortable with you if only you.
I wanted some help not people who make me feel bad...
Best advice ever~
You were the one who posted this in GC over EoEO.
Both of you gets like AIM or Trillian or something, and talk on there.
Filter out the teasing and you get the advice: Ask her to get MSN and ssend her a webcam ($15 at Wallmart) as a gift
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Ben, I'm sure noone is trying to make you feel bad. It's fine that you posted the thread here but a general tip is people will be more serious and sympathetic in Eyes on Each Other, whilst in general chat, you kinda have to expect any response people feel like.
I think the main thing people are saying is it's quite important to talk but I'm sure you two are both young and just getting used to this stuff. Don't worry so much - but if you're not happy then try the things suggested...
Or maybe just give her a hug. Talking is overrated.
One time, I was dating someone and I didn't know it until she broke up with me.
You should check and make sure you both know that you're dating.
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you don't talk?
must be fun xD
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