Yeah try and talk on msn. It can be real fun ^_~ And then maybe if she comes out of herself on there she will then find it easier to do so in real life. And hey sometimes talking isn't the most important thing if you two can be happy together in silence, then that's fine too. But yeah if you want to talk more, try and talk to her but ask her stuff about herself and the stuff she's into too. I find, and personally it's a lot easier to talk about stuff you're into and then even quiet people can't shut up about some things. xD