probably should've been posted in eoeo, but what the hell. I guess I have never had this kind of situation, going out with someone and not talking to them? Seriously sounds screwy imho but heck I'm one guy and as I have proven before in my actions and my relationships, what the hell do I know about women? Try talking to her, talking is like one of the most important things in relationships even if she is shy she should feel comfortable with you if only you.