Quote Originally Posted by I'm my own MILF View Post
Both of you gets like AIM or Trillian or something, and talk on there.
Trillian! ^_^ But you'll still need AIM or MSN or whatever accounts, butcha shouldnt have to download the programs. And its nice to be able to keep all the conversations in one window.

Quote Originally Posted by Xander View Post
Ben, I'm sure noone is trying to make you feel bad. It's fine that you posted the thread here but a general tip is people will be more serious and sympathetic in Eyes on Each Other, whilst in general chat, you kinda have to expect any response people feel like.

I think the main thing people are saying is it's quite important to talk but I'm sure you two are both young and just getting used to this stuff. Don't worry so much - but if you're not happy then try the things suggested...

Or maybe just give her a hug. Talking is overrated.
Yeah, EoEO people go in there more seriously and helpful, but hey, notice people that this thread hasnt been moved. So i'm figuring that its probably okay.

And yep, hugs would be good. ^_^ A lot of times you can convey more emotion through a hug than through words...words are so...limiting. Like say you fall in love with her and you wanna say "i love you" but you want a stronger word than love. Good luck finding that word <.<

Ignore Moon Rabbits' post...any sort of pretending in this relationship (doesnt sound to me like its particularly strong at this point) will hurt it. Talk about stuffs you're both interested in...hell, let her talk about only stuff she's interested in but listen anyway. Trust me, if you listen to a girl ramble on about nothing or rant about some problem in her life, she will be very appreciative that you actually stuck by her and listened to her.