I only use a little tounge, i don't want to be compared to my frickin' tumble-dryer. Another point would be that whenever i do kiss a girl, i make sure to always take it slow and gentle. Now people might say that's womanly of me, but i genuinely think it's the best way for kissing someone, for me personally.

As a note, kissing someone on the neck is way better. For some reason, when it happens to me i just get really light-headed. I love it.