I remember guys at school, who I had crushes on, when they found out they were generally really horrible to me, laughing and then one once said "We're going to be really horrible to you now". And umm I never really understood why me liking them made them horrible to me.... I guess because I was not one of the cool people at school but still xD

Cocky people I wouldn't go near again... there's no need to be horrible, but maybe your behaviour is natural for some guys, I don't know, at school I could understand it maybe cos guys could be immature... but now, hmm. No reason to want them to feel sad, I think maybe you do just feel proud that they like you and maybe powerful that you can turn them down and be in control of the situation and of what they want. Natural in a way I guess, but you should show respect if you can at least.