I took a girl out Saturday night. I asked her in personal after class last Tuesday. In person is usually best, I find. Not only does it make you seem like less of a pansy, it's harder for people to say no to your face!
I took a girl out Saturday night. I asked her in personal after class last Tuesday. In person is usually best, I find. Not only does it make you seem like less of a pansy, it's harder for people to say no to your face!
I've only asked one person out, and I cheated anyway. A friend of mine, who was her best friend, told me to. I'm normally very calm around females until there's any chance of romance, then I'm useless.
As a male who is skinny and not outgoing, I was always shy at some point. I never asked anyone out for at least four years when I was in High School. Then when i did it ended in failure.
Then in college it completely turned around and I had smurfing groupies.
I tended to prefer asking someone in person rather than in email or IM, no matter how unnerving it may be. I think the women appreciated that more.
Funny how that worked out. I met some crazy chick like that. Anyway, a whole lot of drama later, I met my wife and we're happily married. So I never have to be awkward around stranger women again. I mean its kind of funny, being married unnerves a person. I can strike up a convo with any chick and my heart would be fine. =/
I ask a girl out by leaping out of the bushes and performing a sexy dance. So far it's only worked twice.
B-E-N-D-E-R BEEENNNDER! B-E-N-D-E-R BEEEENNNDER!
I haven't asked anyone, and no one's asked me. I'm happy.
In the case of your friend, I'd probably ask near the end of the night. There will be plenty of times to get cute photos and have fun on other days. And yeah, alcohol helps in your advantage too. =P
I usually punch them in the stomach. If they stay standing I inform them they are suitable mating material, give them my address and tell them to come round in their own time.
There is no signature here. Move along.
I didn't really ask Chrissy out. We where discussing something else and somehow ended up to:
Dan: What would you say if I said I had a mini-crush on you?
Chrissy: Honestly?
Dan: Yes.
Chrissy: I'd like it.
*Ten minutes later*
Dan: Wait a sec! Are we dating now or something?
Chrissy: I think... so.
Sounds like the situation leading up to me asking my girlfriend out. People kept asking us if we were dating, and we said no (obviously). But I asked her if I could say yes to them next time, to get reactions. We ended up pretending to be going out for 2 days before I asked "officially" (after basically being ordered to)
I've only been asked out. Once it was during Prom. This guy was pretty adamant about getting my number too. Then the following week he kept calling asking if I would go to this party with him and a really bad area, so I just told him something stupid like I have to tan or something. I also got got propositions from 3 EoFFers who were probably serious. xD