Suburban is still urban as far as I'm concerned, and I'm definitely urban. I like having everything on my doorstep. I do love nature, but you can't have both, and I convenience is something I enjoy all too much. I want to have my high speed broadband internet, all the shops I need, cinema complexes, a variety of restaurants, parks, competing supermarkets with all the obscure crap I could ever need, various takeaways etc. all nearby.

EDIT: Pike, I would consider a town with 30,000 people to be urban. Rural is more... villages, hamlets, farms etc.