I tried to rep this post twice.
Ehhhhhh but look at Princess Peach. Even to this day, we don't know how strong towards her feelings are towards Mario. It's more like an "award" for the male character-hero and the player for completing the game. You defeat the villain, you save the girl, you get her kiss or hug or "even better" a relationship with her. Credits roll. Nerd from 1987 grabs his skateboard and goes home feeling accomplished.