I went to my first gay bar tonight. It was a success! Got some guy to teach me how to dance and then things spiraled out of control from there. :kakapo:
Have you been to a gay bar?
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I went to my first gay bar tonight. It was a success! Got some guy to teach me how to dance and then things spiraled out of control from there. :kakapo:
Have you been to a gay bar?
I'm from Manchester, UK which has a huge gay scene and subsequently have quite a few gay friends. There are loads of cool bars down canal street which I will attend on occasion.
There are a few extreme places that I've heard about that I don't bother with but most of them are pretty cool.
I've found in the past that it's actually a really sweet place to pick up girls! I might have to make a return trip...
I don't think so, but maybe I have... there are quite a few in Edinburgh. I'm not big in clubbing though, and there are far more gay clubs here than gay bars. So I'm not certain I've been to one or not.
Last time I went to a gay bar with one of my gay friends in Soho London was disappointing. The bouncer on the door who was also clearly gay refused entry to myself and about 5 other people who were with our friend because it was obvious we were straight. Yes, I was refused entry on heterophobic reasons. And gay people often complain that they receive homophobia. Even more ironic I've been told on more than one occasion I trigger people's "gaydar" lol
Unfortunately, this all too common. It happens a lot in Manchester as well. I can understand if it was group of lairy straight lads but if it's just a normal, straight guy with some gay friends then it is blatant discrimination. Luckily, I haven't been turned away once for this reason... maybe I should stop wearing tight shirts...Quote:
Originally Posted by Iceglow
if i visit dignified trolland this next month, he'll drag me kicking and screaming to a gay bar.
hopefully this one won't throw me out for saying 'let's get the smurf out of here' shortly before getting up to leave.
yeah i was leaving anyway LOSER
what bar bans swearing anyway? gay bars - that's what.
that said - lesbians make great conversationalists. like one hundred thousand times better than the smartest dick chasing women.
The gay night club is the only night club that's any good in this town. I don't go clubbing or to bars, but I imagine it'll be the first one I go to since it's the only one my friends will step foot in. It's either that or the country music club with all of its misogyny.
No, but I've never been to a regular bar either, because I'm a loser nerd who lives in her dad's basement.
Right up there with being tied to a truck and dragged to your death or being raped and murdered for being gay. Those homofaguals just don't know how good they have it!Quote:
Originally Posted by Iceglow
I'm not usually the first to jump to the defence of Iceglow, but I think you're taking what he said the wrong way. He's not saying "Omg, they complain that they are victims of homophobia but that totally isn't as bad as the heterophobia I've been a victim of!" - he's (I believe) saying that "they complain that they are victims of homophobia, which they are, but how can you complain about discrimination against your sexual orientation when you discriminate against the sexual orientation of others?"Quote:
Originally Posted by I'm my own MILFRight up there with being tied to a truck and dragged to your death or being raped and murdered for being gay. Those homofaguals just don't know how good they have it!Quote:
Originally Posted by Iceglow
I interpreted it the first way! But even taking the second way - because some gay people are not other gay people.
Not painting all with the same stick - just regarding specific people, in this case the bouncer. People should not be discriminated against for the sexual orientation. Even weirdos like Iceglow. ...but only just even.
Yeah, I think Iceglow should have been able to go in. But you have to expect to be hit on by other guys. If you get irritated by that, then you're forgetting you're in the wrong place.
Actually I do have a right to not be sexually harassed, Justy.
I think it depends on if your straight friends were cute enough. They are running a business after all.