Last time I went to a gay bar with one of my gay friends in Soho London was disappointing. The bouncer on the door who was also clearly gay refused entry to myself and about 5 other people who were with our friend because it was obvious we were straight. Yes, I was refused entry on heterophobic reasons. And gay people often complain that they receive homophobia. Even more ironic I've been told on more than one occasion I trigger people's "gaydar" lol