Very strong friendship feelings, or love?

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02-21-2007, 04:37 PM
Peter_20

Very strong friendship feelings, or love?

I'm not completely sure, but during high school I actually think I had my first serious sexual feelings for another guy.
We started talking to each other during some music lesson, all spontaneously, and I instantly thought "what a charming guy"; he was a hockey player, about 5'9 tall, and he had black, thick hair, tanned skin and tender eyes; I found him hot and cute.
He had a strict attitude, but it was blended together with his constant tender eyes and nice personality, so he came off as "cool" and cute at the same time.
Any way, whenever I got to spend some time with him I felt a strangely happy, exciting feeling, and I actually still just feel the urge to... hold him, or something.
I've never felt like this for a guy before, not even my best friends; we seemed to get along extremely well together, and it's very hard to explain, but I guess you get it by now.

Hm, post your views on the subject. :cool:
02-21-2007, 04:38 PM
Rye

I wouldn't call it love, but affection, sure. Awww. :]
02-21-2007, 04:41 PM
Peter_20

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Originally Posted by Rye

I wouldn't call it love, but affection, sure. Awww. :]

I guess so.
There was something totally special about being around him, and I automatically felt comforted and relieved every time I saw him.
I would undoubtedly like to meet him again, for sure. :jess:
02-21-2007, 04:56 PM
GF_Diablos

I don't think you should ever endanger a friendship for the sake of sexual/romantic feelings.
Don't make a move unless you know he is going to be able to cope with the question (especially in this case) and whether or not you can accept the answer.
02-21-2007, 05:08 PM
Chemical

I wouldn't called it love or affection.

My word of the day is infatuation.
02-21-2007, 05:11 PM
DK

Your story makes me feel funny in special places, Peter_20. :excited:
02-21-2007, 05:16 PM
Levian

Quote:

Originally Posted by DK

Your story makes me feel funny in special places, Peter_20. :excited:

The Phoenix Tower?

Anyway, there was this girl in 7th grade who helped me solve the riddle to find the key to the city of Ancients, it was love. Then we watched Xena the warrior princess.
02-21-2007, 05:17 PM
DK

It certainly did rise, just not from the ashes. :)
02-21-2007, 05:22 PM
Rye

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Originally Posted by DK

It certainly did rise, just not from the ashes. :)

Did I rise from the highest peaks of affection mountain?
02-21-2007, 08:36 PM
Breine

It sounds like a good ol' crush to me. Love is much more deep - or at least that's how I see it :)
02-21-2007, 08:43 PM
Remon

That has happened to me too...but with a girl.And i can tell you i had not fallen in love.It's just attraction,physical or emotional.That's what i think at least :greenie:
02-21-2007, 08:51 PM
Martyr

That is love, in it's purest and most absolute form.

The wonderful thing about it is that he feels the same towards you!!!
02-21-2007, 08:56 PM
oddler

Pointless Post

I can't say it's love but I can't say it's very strong friendship feelings, either.
02-21-2007, 09:35 PM
Xander

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chemical

I wouldn't called it love or affection.

My word of the day is infatuation.

I agree. But infatuation can be nice :D
02-21-2007, 10:03 PM
Mirage

Everything seems to be infatuation to Chemical anyway :p.
02-21-2007, 10:21 PM
I Took the Red Pill

Quote:

Hm, post your views on the subject.

I am so hot for you right now
02-22-2007, 06:59 AM
Madonna

Well, if you can stand to give the guy a second blowjob, it is probably love.

By the by, what is up with your nose, Pete?
02-22-2007, 07:11 AM
Yeargdribble

I'd say it's a crush/infatuation. Nothing wrong with that and it could develop into love.
02-22-2007, 07:26 AM
Chemical

Quote:

Originally Posted by Xander

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chemical

I wouldn't called it love or affection.

My word of the day is infatuation.

I agree. But infatuation can be nice :D

It's my favourite kind.
02-22-2007, 07:29 AM
Araciel

feelings suck.
02-22-2007, 10:12 AM
Chemical

Quote:

Originally Posted by Araciel

feelings suck.

http://i.xanga.com/icon_maniac_xo/emu%20kid.jpg
02-22-2007, 10:31 AM
Araciel

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chemical

Quote:

Originally Posted by Araciel

feelings suck.

http://i.xanga.com/icon_maniac_xo/emu%20kid.jpg

owats this?!?! i think i just cut myself on my frozen tears....frozen by the cold of my emptiness
02-22-2007, 12:17 PM
Iceglow

LMAO Araciel.

I don't know it's a case of just going with the flow for sure, forcing any situations to occur is generally a bad thing. I'm generally quite impatient about things and yet I like someone but I'm going to just chill out and relax about this one I think you need to do the same, if anything is meant to happen then it will happen the situation will arise and then you take it don't try to make that situation arise it's complicated and worse still can be extremely awquard.
02-22-2007, 07:21 PM
escobert

My nose is dripping.
02-22-2007, 08:19 PM
Quindiana Jones

My "nose" is dripping.

It sickens me to agree with Chem Ali.
02-26-2007, 01:37 AM
Bart's Friend Milhouse

I think you should ask if you can hold his hand
06-14-2023, 01:52 PM
Christmas

So are u two happily married? :bigsmile: