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    Default Very strong friendship feelings, or love?

    I'm not completely sure, but during high school I actually think I had my first serious sexual feelings for another guy.
    We started talking to each other during some music lesson, all spontaneously, and I instantly thought "what a charming guy"; he was a hockey player, about 5'9 tall, and he had black, thick hair, tanned skin and tender eyes; I found him hot and cute.
    He had a strict attitude, but it was blended together with his constant tender eyes and nice personality, so he came off as "cool" and cute at the same time.
    Any way, whenever I got to spend some time with him I felt a strangely happy, exciting feeling, and I actually still just feel the urge to... hold him, or something.
    I've never felt like this for a guy before, not even my best friends; we seemed to get along extremely well together, and it's very hard to explain, but I guess you get it by now.

    Hm, post your views on the subject.

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    I wouldn't call it love, but affection, sure. Awww. :]


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    Quote Originally Posted by Rye View Post
    I wouldn't call it love, but affection, sure. Awww. :]
    I guess so.
    There was something totally special about being around him, and I automatically felt comforted and relieved every time I saw him.
    I would undoubtedly like to meet him again, for sure.

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    I don't think you should ever endanger a friendship for the sake of sexual/romantic feelings.
    Don't make a move unless you know he is going to be able to cope with the question (especially in this case) and whether or not you can accept the answer.

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    I wouldn't called it love or affection.

    My word of the day is infatuation.

    Boldly go.

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    Your story makes me feel funny in special places, Peter_20.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DK View Post
    Your story makes me feel funny in special places, Peter_20.
    The Phoenix Tower?

    Anyway, there was this girl in 7th grade who helped me solve the riddle to find the key to the city of Ancients, it was love. Then we watched Xena the warrior princess.


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    It certainly did rise, just not from the ashes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DK View Post
    It certainly did rise, just not from the ashes.
    Did I rise from the highest peaks of affection mountain?


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    It sounds like a good ol' crush to me. Love is much more deep - or at least that's how I see it

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    That has happened to me too...but with a girl.And i can tell you i had not fallen in love.It's just attraction,physical or emotional.That's what i think at least

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    That is love, in it's purest and most absolute form.

    The wonderful thing about it is that he feels the same towards you!!!

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    I can't say it's love but I can't say it's very strong friendship feelings, either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chemical View Post
    I wouldn't called it love or affection.

    My word of the day is infatuation.
    I agree. But infatuation can be nice
    rawr

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    Everything seems to be infatuation to Chemical anyway :p.
    everything is wrapped in gray
    i'm focusing on your image
    can you hear me in the void?

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