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Damn...
I feel so friggin' utterly miserable. Today I had a date with a girl that I have liked for a long time. I have liked her for a looooooooooong time and I was looking forward to taking her out.
When I met her, she said something else came up and she cancelled on me, right there and then. On the spot. It was so depressing.
Right now I feel sad and upset. I haven't felt this bad for a long time.
I just wanna cry :crying:
Something came up could mean a lot of things. Simply reschedule.
Just reschedule for a better time. I just wonder why she didn't tell you this before you actually met up with her.
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Originally Posted by IBCrayZ
If she does it next time, though, just forget about her. Flakes make terrible friends/relationships.
Yeeeeah,
I'm just a little bummed out right now.
It's awful... I've been looking forward to this for a whole week and now, at the last minute, I get bummed out. I am not really so keen on asking her out again at the moment because I dont want to look forward to the next time and for the same crap to happen all over again.
Women are soooooo... bad!
She showed up. She showed up and told you something else had come up. She obviously didn't want you to stand there all alone, not knowing.
She took the time and told you something else had come up. This is good. :)
And she did say yes to the date in the first place. If she really didn't like you she would've said no to begin with.
Yeah but she could of just said it over the phone and not wasted your time
You're lucky, my girlfriend DUMPED me on a date!
O_O Dude, PM me right now. How could she do that... if you planned it from so long ago, she could've called you. *pats*
:hug: :cat: women aren't all bad...don't worry...things'll get better...take it, learn from it, then move on to somethin else fun! like....watering imaginary plants...you *do* have imaginary plants don't you? :whaaa: haha anyways...just don't give up hope on it...everything works out for a reason!
Personally I'd have prefered that she told me by showing up than by calling me.
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Originally Posted by Kurenai
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You have not been dumped. She stood you up! What if someone in her family had died or something...:(
:( Don't feel too bad, maybe she wasn't worth it, ya?Quote:
Originally Posted by Dellas18
Well, at least she told you in person. I do find that rather encouraging. Why? Well, if she was able to tell you in person that she was busy and had something to do, (who knows what it may be, maybe ask her about it on the date when you have the chance) I feel she may be willing to go out with you later on. Try rescheduling the date as others suggested.
If she hadn't appeared, then that's a different story. Be glad that you didn't get stood up like that.
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Originally Posted by AdVenT
lol?
Don't understand how this is funny...Quote:
Originally Posted by Neel Hates Clout's Guts
you weren't stood up, the fact that she showed up means you weren't stood up. She told you something came up in person, therefore she cares to some extent, ask her out again seriously stop feeling sorry and just do it
THE JACKEL
Because one of them cancelled a date with you....Quote:
Originally Posted by Dellas18
Ya know all of Alive-mans posts seem to be pretty dead on.
Levian would definitely know all about rejection.Quote:
Originally Posted by Levian
As others have mentioned. You didn't get stood up. Not really. And the fact that she showed up in person means she intended to carry on with the date if it hadn't been for whatever it was that came up.
Unless. Unless you two have never met before, and she saw you and then she decided to flake on the date. In which case... that's not so good.
I didn't get rejected, she said yes to the date! It's just that she had to cancel because her life was a little complicated and she needed to gather her thoughts.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dignified Pauper
That must suck. :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Dellas18
It's sad how undervalued people (in general) are nowadays.
Let's all shout it out!Quote:
Originally Posted by Dellas18
dont cry:( (pats back).... it'll be ok. just try again and if she does the same, try a different girl. like Kurenai said, women arent all bad. here, i'll cry with u :kaocry:Quote:
Originally Posted by Dellas18
Hahah oh yah! I'm a woman, well, girl, so I don't know why I'm agreeing.Quote:
Originally Posted by DeathKnight
Hey, Dellas, you're feeling better now? :p
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Originally Posted by Levian
whatever makes you sleep at night. Maybe I'll dress in drag and date you to boost your confidence. Do you think I'd make a pretty girl?
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Originally Posted by Dignified Pauper
You were lucky enough to not be one of many people Loony BoB stood up after the first night.
http://forums.eyesonff.com/member.php?u=17497
http://forums.eyesonff.com/member.php?u=17508
http://forums.eyesonff.com/member.php?u=17520
http://forums.eyesonff.com/member.php?u=17501
http://forums.eyesonff.com/member.php?u=17518
http://forums.eyesonff.com/member.php?u=11606
http://forums.eyesonff.com/member.php?u=17505
http://forums.eyesonff.com/member.php?u=17498
http://forums.eyesonff.com/member.php?u=17514
http://forums.eyesonff.com/member.php?u=17511
And then there are the posers.
http://forums.eyesonff.com/member.php?u=16922
Don't go out with people you know. Find girls from other schools, and get them hella drunk.
I make one hot woman. Who wants to take me out for a night on the town?Quote:
Originally Posted by Kyono
Oh, that's awful.
Don't worry, dude. I'd say what everyone else is saying, but everyone else already said it. So, I think you should do something like play a Video Game. It's great for stress, because it sets your mind on something totally different, and gives you goals to complete. It might take some of your sadness away. :choc2:
Are you serious? This happens with me. What you do is never talk to her again. A flake is a terrible excuse for a human being. No priorities or that you are the lowest member of said priority list.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dellas18