Dude, you smurfed up. Never, never insult your woman about her 'female emotions'.

As far as the letters and photos or w/e goes, having them to me, is a sign that you haven't gotten over your ex, especially if you look at them so often. Now I'm a man and I understand that when women do that whole "I don't trust you" thing one can get upset. However, she's suppose to be your girlfriend, not your fling of the week. =/