I think I'm probably number one.

I often bitch about things - ie, the pots haven't been washed and my housemate has been lazy. But I tend to have a really long fuse when it comes to people. It takes me a very long time to reach that level where I will totally annihilate someone with my bitching. Usually I'm just sweet and friendly, don't spread gossip around. I DO get bothered easily though and get in frets very easily and end up complaining and getting upset/emotional but it only lasts a short while until I get it out of my system and I'm fine again.

I'm also not the type of person to do something that would hurt someone. I know a lot of girls who a bitches from head to toe and walk all over each other, flirt with each others boyfriends or the people that they both fancy and it's annoying, I keep away from that kind of behaviour. And when someone does it to me, I won't lie, I consider going back after them and making their life hell, but I do just rise above it and let it simmer down.