I am posting here because I don't want to go near Wesley.

Big meetups with people I don't know very well would probably make me uncomfortable, but I feel like underlying specific of having EoFF in common would make it a little easier for me to feel comfortable and open up. Meeting up with atleast an acquaintance would probably be better than meeting up with a stranger.

Rantz and I met up with Marshall Banana, Necronopticus and Kawaii Ryukishi in California a couple years ago - three people I have had very to little interaction with over the years. We went to lunch and got boba tea and it was actually great, even though we had never really spoken or anything before!